2005 is here! And
it is time to start on quitting smoking. But do you notice how your
enthusiasm tends to fade away as February comes around, as you realize
that quitting smoking is a lifetime goal and not something you can
accomplish in a few weeks. If you really want to be successful, always
keep 3 important things in mind.
1: Adjust
Your Attitude To Work For You
If you have the
wrong attitude about quitting smoking, you're already setting yourself
up for failure. Most people look at quitting smoking as:
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A
bad experience of cravings and urges
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A
punishment or torment
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A
loss of years of nurturing the habit
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An
obligation to someone else
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Painful
and suffering
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A
waste of time
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Not
sustainable at all
If any of these
sound familiar, how long do you expect to stick with your resolution
to quit smoking? Nobody wants to do something painful, boring or
obligatory. So before you throw yourself at quitting smoking, sort out
your attitudes about it and figure out whether these attitudes are
true or just lies you've been telling yourself for years. Then, try a
positive approach to quitting smoking and take it as:
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The
best way to improve health and stamina right now
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The
best thing you can do right now to ensure better health in the
future
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A
great way to dramatically boost your energy and mood
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A
clear-cut way to save a few thousand bucks a year
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The
most basic way to eliminate lingering cigarette smells
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The
simplest way to get rid of cigarette butts and ash stain
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A
chance to improve the overall quality of your life at once
Here are some key
points about quitting smoking that you need to understand as well:
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Willpower
does not work. It is meant for short-term success, whereas long-term
success requires planning, discipline and seeking ways and
methods to help and motivate yourself.
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Motivation
will not happen miraculously. And motivation changes from day to
day. You have to recommit to your goals each day, twist them
around to fit changes in your lifestyle and attitude and find new
ways to motivate yourself over time.
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Commitment
means that you will do make it happen, even when you do not want
to at times. Know that you will always have to work at it.
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Plan
to work and work your plan. Once you have made your own plan to
quit smoking, figure out how you will make your plan work
effectively.
2: Change
Your
Lifestyle
Did smoking creep
up on you without you knowing? But then,
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You
can't smoke if your lifestyle doesn't support it.
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You
can't smoke if you haven't allowed yourself to.
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You
can't smoke if you've not made time and space for it.
Never forget that
quitting smoking is a lifetime prospect. You will need to keep working
on it to stay quit. But just like other lifetime commitments, staying
quit will get easier and easier as you progress. Once you have molded
staying quit as part of your lifestyle, it becomes a more natural and
instinctive process.
Recognize the
gravity of permanently quitting smoking for you will need to change
your lifestyle to accommodate this goal.
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Keep
track of the things you do when you smoke and identify your
smoking patterns. This could be drinking coffee, driving,
studying, during a break, after meals, drinking alcohol or
anything that comes to mind.
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Change
these smoking patterns. Drink orange juice or tea instead of
coffee, take a bus instead of driving, study in a library, chat
with non-smoker friends during breaks, eat in a non-smoking
section or switching from alcohol to other beverages.
These are just examples. The bottom line is that by making these
simple changes to disrupt your smoking patterns, you can put off
your triggers and urges to smoke easier.
Although this may
sound too easy, making these changes are not. You may even need to
change your environment to avoid encounters with certain patterns. For
example, if you want to change from smoking during breaks, you may
need to
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Change
what you do during breaks. You may need to make new circle of
non-smoker friends you to hang out with during breaks.
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Do
something else that will occupy your time, maybe take a nap or
simple stretching exercises
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Stay
in smoke-free areas during your breaks.
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Stop
carrying cigarettes with you on your break. And do not carry
enough money to buy cigarettes either. This is a good way of
making sure you do not have any means to smoke.
3: Plan to
Work and Work your Plan
You've figured
out how to change your smoking patterns by adjusting or changing them
with better ones and creating an environment that keeps you away from
smoking too. Now, you need to make a plan for you to work on.
Set Your
Goals
Quote Anthony
Robbins: goals are visions with a deadline. Write down specific goals
you have, not just 'I want to quit smoking' but details such as:
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A
target quit date for you to quit smoking. Make sure that this is a
realistic goal.
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Strong
reasons for you want to achieve your goal.
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What
you think will happen if you reach your goal.
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How
you will stay smoke-free. Remember, it is a lifetime issue, even
when you reach your goal, you cannot stop!
Set Up Your
Program
Choose a program
for quitting smoking. Psychologists have determined that quitting
smoking without the use of a quit program will result in high
failure rates. By making the choice to start with a quit program, and
with the help included in the program, you stand a much better chance
of quitting smoking. Kicking off with the Quit
Today! Program is a fantastic start.
Ensuring
Your Success
Success involves
using every resource you have to keep you going. Do whatever it takes
to be consistent including:
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Stick
to your initial plan for at least 3 months without changes. No
matter what happens, you must be committed to what you start out
to complete.
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Get
your friends and family members involved too. Quitting
smoking with someone else close like a spouse or friend can be
easier as you support and motivate each other.
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Get
support from other smokers and non-smokers. Smokers will try their
best not to smoke when you are around, and non-smokers will show
you respect and encouragement.
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Keep
a journal to track your progress.
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Reward
yourself often with the money you have saved from not smoking. Put
aside the money you would normally spend on cigarettes into a
piggy bank daily and at the end of each month, take out this
amount and treat yourself to deserving new clothes or a vacation.
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Re-visit
your goals every month and gauge your progress. Reward
yourself for goals achieved and work harder on those that are
still in progress.
The most
important thing to remember is that quitting smoking is your
resolution, not only for 2005, but for all years to come. Staying quit
is a lifelong process and by simply making a few good initial choices,
you will make this resolution work for sure.